No matter where we
go we will always meet three kinds of people.
The first kinds are the ones who find faults with us and give us endless
free advices when we are not successful but are all praise once we are. The second
kinds are those who always sympathise us and try to motivate us but turn out to
be jealous once we get better than them. Then there are the third kinds who are
always by our side, no matter what!
The first
categories are foolish they do not have a mind of their own, they like things
which everyone else feels is great. They follow the crowd and try to fit in
everywhere. They make an attempt to be charming and try to be liked by
everyone. These are the people who can never handle rejection and care too much
about what others will think instead of focusing on themselves. It is always
good to maintain a safe distance from them because they are what we actually
call, “The fair weather friends”. The
second categories are those who always like to be with the weak and downtrodden
not because they want to help them but because it makes them feel better
when compared to. So, they basically use you to entertain themselves with your
“inferiority”. They are the ones who
will first come and tell you that you have changed in a bad way when you
succeed in any field of life. They will confront you and try to remind you that
you were once nothing. It is very difficult to identify such people at first
because they are always so sweet and kind to you. But the moment you realise
that they cannot tolerate your success stay away from them as it is advisable
to stay away from people who bring in so much negativity.
The third kinds are
my favourite they are friends for lifetime. It is hard to find such people but
once you do, never get away from them. They are the ones who enjoy your company
and love you for what you are or what you will become. I think if we want true
and honest friends we will always find those among them. They are “The friend
in need type” who will never turn their back on you. They are the people who don’t require you to
pretend in their company. They make you
feel alive and you love to be surrounded by them, so never ever let them go.
True friends are difficult to find, true. One true friend is better than having twenty false ones...
ReplyDeleteThat's very correct.
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