Saturday, 19 December 2015

The Three Kinds of People


No matter where we go we will always meet three kinds of people.  The first kinds are the ones who find faults with us and give us endless free advices when we are not successful but are all praise once we are. The second kinds are those who always sympathise us and try to motivate us but turn out to be jealous once we get better than them. Then there are the third kinds who are always by our side, no matter what!

The first categories are foolish they do not have a mind of their own, they like things which everyone else feels is great. They follow the crowd and try to fit in everywhere. They make an attempt to be charming and try to be liked by everyone. These are the people who can never handle rejection and care too much about what others will think instead of focusing on themselves. It is always good to maintain a safe distance from them because they are what we actually call, “The fair weather friends”.  The second categories are those who always like to be with the weak and downtrodden not because they want to  help them but because it makes them feel better when compared to. So, they basically use you to entertain themselves with your “inferiority”.  They are the ones who will first come and tell you that you have changed in a bad way when you succeed in any field of life. They will confront you and try to remind you that you were once nothing. It is very difficult to identify such people at first because they are always so sweet and kind to you. But the moment you realise that they cannot tolerate your success stay away from them as it is advisable to stay away from people who bring in so much negativity.

The third kinds are my favourite they are friends for lifetime. It is hard to find such people but once you do, never get away from them. They are the ones who enjoy your company and love you for what you are or what you will become. I think if we want true and honest friends we will always find those among them. They are “The friend in need type” who will never turn their back on you.  They are the people who don’t require you to pretend in their company.  They make you feel alive and you love to be surrounded by them, so never ever let them go.


2 comments:

  1. True friends are difficult to find, true. One true friend is better than having twenty false ones...

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